Words to share after loss
How many of us have wondered what to say to a friend or family member who has lost a loved one to death? We rehearse what we are going to say over and over. But many times, what people want is your presence not a well articulated speech. This past week, I finished reading Scandalous by D. A. Carson. It is book on the resurrection, but he had a great section on death. I wanted to share a few quotes from that section. "Jesus is outraged not because he has lost a friend but because of death itself. Death is such an ugly enemy. It generates endless and incalculable anguish." "We are sinners, and we will die. Every time there is death, it still hurts. It is still painful. It is still ugly. . .This is not the way God made the creation in the first place. Jesus is outraged by the whole thing. Christians must adopt something of this same stance toward death." "Death is an enemy, and it can be a fierce one. Death is not normal when you look at it from ...
